Wednesday, October 17, 2012

FaceBook's Exploitation of Amanda Todd


A “cause” is circulating FaceBook. An invitation to join the “Petition: Arrest Cyber Bullies Responsible for Amanda Todd’s Death”. I don’t understand the purpose of the petition and have not yet signed.
 
Amanda was targeted and exploited by a sexual predator - still free and most likely preying on other innocent and vulnerable children. There are a reported 5 million FaceBook users under the age of 10 and FaceBook knows it.
 
I take exception that FaceBook Inc. is allowed to profit from child exploitation, cyber-rape and suicide.
 
Bullying is a traffic driven hot topic. Arresting bullies is not a cause – it’s an outcome.

A petition should not be required to enforce a Child Exploitation and Protection crime. Her tragedy began with a predator using a naked picture of her and then extorting and exploiting her through mass distribution to the world. It has also been reported, this child porn photo was also at some point used as a "profile" picture.

FaceBook Inc. provides a social networking service, an online worldwide neighbourhood. It is a publically traded conglomerate that facilitates relationship building and promotes personal detail sharing among like-minded people, groups and associations.
 
It is a cyber nation and should therefore be governed by the United Nations Convention on the Rights of a Child.
 
FaceBook’s metric system of revenue generation is predicated and calculated by notoriety of topic; a rating platform of interest and traffic driven participation of a similar audience. On that basis, FaceBook makes money.
 
FaceBook is profiting off of any and all traffic driven social interaction pertaining to this child’s suicide and in real time without having any responsibility in facilitating the interaction. It appears to me, FaceBook Inc. is an accessory and facilitated these child abuse crimes.
 
What is FaceBook’s Age of Consent?
 
There isn’t one.
 
There are “Terms of Service” which I am sure every 5 million estimated 10 year olds read in entirety and understood. 

Blame Parents, it’s your fault!

Reality Check - if a kid wants a FaceBook account, they will find a way to have a FaceBook account. Parents are not there 24/7 and cannot monitor their childrens' online access and eternal footprint in its entirety - and FaceBook knows this.
 
It is time for FaceBook Inc. to accept culpability.
 
We can demand it. We can demand Child Protection technology be adopted by FaceBook.

If not – in protest, we can mass delete our profiles.
 
Now that petition I would sign.

 
 

 

 

Wednesday, July 25, 2012

Dear USA: You are acting idiotic


Dear USA:

With all due respect, to each and every one of you as individuals - collectively - you are idiots.

You are.

Your nation is completely falling to pieces... even perhaps irreparable pieces. You are in complete denial. You are willing to sacrifice your innocent children to prove a point and you use the guise of "constitutional rights" to justify homicide - literally.

The fact that someone can buy 6,000 bullets over the internet and delivered to their home or work is stupid - stupid!

Tell me, that is smart. Go ahead.

No actually, stop... because then you sound like an even bigger idiot.

Think of it this way... You travel abroad, you might even simply and easily cross the boarder into my country Canada - you cannot have a gun here or anywhere else for that matter. You travel to foreign countries and you do not have a gun.  You have no idea of any dangers. Yet, within the comfort of your own home; a place where peace and security should be understood, you feel the necessity to have a gun.

Can you understand how backwards that is?

You may also want to consider exploring the novel concept of Homeland Security and how inept and incredibly flawed that system must be. How is it that an excessive amount of arsenal and war armour can be so easily purchased yet not recognizable to authorities?

You should demand more accountability from your media. Piers Morgan and Michael Moore made sense tonight. Anderson Cooper, you are adorable and authentic and honest - but tonight's Ridiculist should have been about how someone is able to buy 6,000 bullets and not some guy tracing a road to look like a penis.

What if his name was Mohammed instead of James? Then it would be labelled terrorism. How would politicians and media alike be addressing the tragedy in Aurora if Mohammed did it?

You need to think about that.

The one thing many other countries around the world have always admired is the pride and patriotism you show for your country and the potential that democratic independence can provide. Now, that pride has been replaced with ego, veiled as patriotism and it is really sad.

Rights now means ego and independence means control.  Independence fueled through rights versus control fueled through ego. That is a homemade bomb and that is your biggest terrorist threat.

I will not pretend to know the answer. I do not actually think there is one. I think you will fail - and then rise again but nevertheless, fail, destroy yourselves and graduate from the school of hard knocks.

I need to do what I need to do to protect my own country, as are others - all over the world. That is because we acknowledge what you refuse to even speak about. We see it - you do not. Therefore, you are a threat to me and the safety of my family and I refuse to enable your ego.

Your "rights" are idiotic - devoid of common sense, with all due respect.


Sincerely,
Lisa

Wednesday, July 18, 2012

#Danzig Shooting: "Something has to be done - Something has to change!"


You hear this sentiment... this wish.. this hope everywhere from everybody throughout Canada but particularly now with the tragedy that unfolded on Danzig Street in Scarborough, Ontario on Monday.

"Something has to change - something has to be done."

Something... something... something... what could possibly to done to immediately eradicate the threat and use of illegal hand guns, not only in Toronto, but anywhere in Canada.


"O Canada! Our home and native land!
True patriot love in all thy sons command.
With glowing hearts we see thee rise,
The True North strong and free!
From far and wide, O Canada,
We stand on guard for thee.
God keep our land glorious and free!
O Canada, we stand on guard for thee.
O Canada, we stand on guard for thee. "



We stand on guard for thee... We stand on guard for thee... We are the ones!

Is that not the change?! Is that not the "something that has to be done"?!

Our anthem tells us what must be done to protect our country, our citizens, our guests, our reputation. We as Canadians, each and every single individual must stand on guard for thee... others.

Illegal hand guns are a problem; that is becoming increasingly evident. Who knows more about that then the police, the government or any other authority enforcing laws meant to keep us - safe and, our country, safe... Canada... so it continues to be... True - North - Strong - Free.

Mayor of Toronto, do not patronize. "This" is not an "isolated incident".

25 people - 2 have died - It could have been 25. The "incident" could have so easily been described as massacre. It could happen again. It just might happen again.

The people who brought those guns. The people who shot those guns. The people who killed 2 and shot up so many others. They must be caught - but so should the "people" who knew these shooters even had the guns.

The "something"... the "something" that needs to change... the "something" that needs to be done.

That would be us.

We need to stand on guard for thee.

"O Canada" is not just an anthem - it is a pledge. We need to report to Crime Stoppers our knowledge who carries and whom threatens to use illegal handguns. If "we" do what "we" are supposed to... "Stand on Guard" they cannot.


Do that today. Stand on guard for your family, your neighbours, your communities and your country.

Call Crime Stoppers - 1.800.222.8477 (TIPS) - Report the illegal handgun(s) and save a life - save many lives.

I personally thank you... I thank you very, very much.

Tuesday, June 19, 2012

Confessions of a Mom: #1

I hide chocolate in the vegetable drawer of the fridge because I know my kids will never find it.


Saturday, May 19, 2012

Canadian Poverty: An open question to Prime Minister Stephen Harper



You're at G8, enjoying Camp David...
the United Nations has internationally blasted Canada
as "self-righteous" about poverty & hunger
NOW would be a good time!



Orginally asked (posted) April 18th, 2012


Dear Prime Minister Stephen Harper:

Why is Canada the only country part of the G8 that does not have a "National Poverty Reduction Strategy"?!

Thank you in advance for your prompt reply.


Respectfully,

Lisa A. MacLeod
Canadian Citizen

As of April 27th, 2012 - Still no answer.




Sunday, May 13, 2012

Happy Mother's Day

"Biology is the least of what makes someone a mother."
..Oprah

Monday, May 7, 2012

How to change the stigma of Mental Health


Use the word "Psychological" instead..

Imagine the difference it would make if in every press conference and every article the word "mental" was replace with psychological - the stigma of "mental" illness would change.

Psychological Health - Psychological Illness - Psychological, not Mental. It would make a difference.


What do you think?


Comment and begin a discussion..




Friday, April 27, 2012

Is the DSBN an educational & financial liability for Niagara's children?



In 2005 my children were transferred from the TDSB (Toronto District School Board) to the DSBN (District School Board of Niagara).  My son entered grade six and my daughter grade one.

Immediately, my son began to complain. "I'm bored. I know all of this, I did it before."  I replied, "It's September, it's always review, soon you'll be complaining of homework."

He never did.

My son is quick.  He always has been; not just scholastically but in life.  He notices things, he remembers things, he pays attention and he questions - he is very bright.

He complained all year long.  "I know this, I've done this already!!"

On several occasions I spoke to various school officials that assured me the curriculum was the same (as it falls under Provincial standards) but I still urged the teachers to challenge him. His enthusiasm diminished quickly only it was attributed to the location move and adjusting.  Being a normal Mom, I absorbed the guilt and dismissed the curriculum.

One day when when he was in grade seven (second semester), he came home from school shouting.  "Mom! Mom! MOM!!  Where is my stuff Mom?!" as he bounded up the stairs to his room.

 "Where is my work from my old school?!!" "MOM!!!!"

My son is a typically a quiet kid, but on this day - wow!  He was obviously very unhappy and upset.

"I am not doing this again!  I am not doing the same work again!!" as he was scrambled through his closet looking for his "old schools' keepsakes".

"Where's my book reports?!  I'm not reading this book again, I did this report - and I got an A!"

"I'm not doing it again Mom -  I'm not!!"

When I looked at him, his face was full of angst and there was a look in his eyes, a look I had never seen before. I wasn't sure what it was, but it was very different, it was new and it was distressful.

The book is Maniac Magee written by Jerry Spinelli and delves into the topics of racism, poverty and homelessness. "Scholastic" indicates this book is for ages 9-13 and for a grade level of  5.4 .

The TDSB is on par, my son studied this novel in grade 5, second semester at age 10-11.  In comparison, The DSBN decided this particular acclaimed novel study, one of literary and social awareness was more applicable for children in Niagara at the age of 12-13, being grade 7.

Why?

My son handed in a new book report and got a C+. That mark did not reflect his level of comprehension, that mark reflected indifference and defeat. That was the look in his eye that day - defeat.

The Province of Ontario dictates and provides the educational materials 'needed' for course instruction. Long gone are the days when teachers could think for themselves and teach according to the students in their class, not according to the officials watching through the door.

Niagara parents seriously need to question why the DSBN feels the same book, with the same tests is at par with Niagara children whom are two years older. This is extreme.

Eventually, the children will all be completing with each other for post-secondary education, not to mention, financing. Niagara has one of the highest unemployment rates in Canada and most residents stay within the region.

Could there be a direct correlation between the education standards held by the DSBN and the continuum of high poverty in Niagara?

Could there also be a correlation between the curriculum and a school board's determination to rank in the EQAO testing?

Is this differential about education or politics?

My son will tell you, "these schools made me stupid." He continued to speak with the kids from his old school and would say, "Mom I could never go back to Toronto, I would fail everything. I'm not smart anymore."

Of course I disputed his theory but I could see the effects. His judgement and choices changed. He gave up and his enthusiasm to learn was gone - why bother became the attitude. He was no longer challenged.

If I could have afforded it, I would have moved back - but I couldn't.

I was hopeful that when he entered high school and it was a more 'adult' atmosphere, he would once again be enthusiastic about his education. That never happened.

Now before someone hypes about teachers - lay off - their hands are tied with red tape but their personalities are not which is the true difference between a "good" and "bad" teacher.

It also factors into whether or not your child's education is accelerated by enjoying their school year or stagnated though boredom and discouragement.

My mother was a teacher, I grew up with teachers, one of my best friends today, is one of my own high school teachers. I will defend most educators. But, today, they are carbon-copy graduates who dictate mandatory curriculum. They are the adult versions of unenthusiastic students. It is a continuation of the "why bother" attitude and the children sense it, then adopt it.

As a parent, I commend the rogue educators. I thank you, keep fighting.

As for parental responsibility and involvement, I am educated. I have Grade 13 and 3 years post-secondary education. I have consistently reinforced the value of education in both my children since they were small as my mother instilled in me and - I did all I could to educate my child in tangent with their school.

After the Maniac McGee incident, I demanded an answer from the school and reinforced my concerns but the DSBN chosen grade 7 curriculum was "technically" correct. I requested advanced work. This occurred for a short time but ended. When? I honestly don't know but it did.

Ontario offers an IEP (Independent Educational Plan) for student with difficulties in maintaining provincial standards - why don't they offer the same for the children who excel?

The provincial government in all its glory totes success of the EQAO (Education Quality and Accountability Office). Measurement of students achieving grades, ranking of teachers and schools educational success does not regulate the root of this testing - the curriculum.

Who monitors and measures the choices and decisions between the School Boards? The mean base is unbalanced. The same one that the Ontario government measures, rates and ranks schools, teachers and children according to results of "standardized testing".

If the curriculum is not equal, and the level of challenge unbalanced - how can the results be comparable?

Ontario is the only province that does not allow its Ombudsman to investigate the MUSH sector, Municipalities, Universities, Schools, Hospitals. Where do you go? Who do you talk to? Who will listen?

The DSBN has no accountability to justify its decision that Niagara children are at a two year literary disadvantage than those of children who live a mere ninety minutes away.

So, you be the judge.

Is the DSBN an educational and financial liability for Niagara's children?



Request your MPP to expand the mandate of the Ontario Ombudsman to include School Boards here. (Ontario residents only).


Saturday, April 14, 2012

The New Yankee War - Now, it's Women


The good 'ole USA has declared another war, now it's on women. I know, I know... as a Canadian, I too shake my head and think - really?!! Let me repeat - Really?!!

But, then the Canadian in me kicks in and it becomes... really?? Really eh! followed by another shake of the head, small chuckle and sigh of relief, utter relief, I live north of the boarder. But, then the woman in me kicks harder! It is time to say what my southern sisters cannot - as recently shown by the continuous and relentless pundit bashing of Hilary Rosen (@hilaryr).

I am neither a democrat or republican. I am a woman. I am also a stay-at-home, work-at-home mother and single parent, so you could also consider me 'Switzerland' in the current American political propaganda. This is what I have observed and I have a few suggestions.

Stick up for one another. This so-called War on Women is a masculine political and capitalistic establishment tactic to derail the fact that the American women hold all the cards in this upcoming election. You do! That is why your gender is being used, to sway the vote. Women of America - you have the power to change the course of your nation's history. Use it! Unite, don't divide.

Give each other a break - not a sound-bite. Hilary Rosen slipped up, bid deal, we all do. I watched that night, as did millions of others. The context of the entire conversation was dismissed with a single sound bite. Another reason to ditch your politics, your comrades don't have your back. First Lady Obama, the political correct tweet, signed with -mo was very disappointing. Don't teach Malia and Sasha that freedom of speech is governed by politics. You could have, you should have shown courage and leadership; acknowledged the sound-bite was out of context, you could have defended a woman who was simply being passionate about issues affecting her gender. Ann Romney could have done the same. If she truly is her husband's 'gender advisor', she too could have dismantled the firestorm instead of perpetuating it and bashing her own gender.

Stop participating in prejudice induced media propaganda detrimental to your gender. Imagine if the women of "The View" had simply stated, Hilary forgot 3 words... "outside the home" and we are not participating in this needless distraction and battering of a woman who has been both a stay-at-home and work-outside-home mother. She made a political mistake, let's move on.

Start addressing the real issues threatening American women, not political parties. Discuss health care reform by addressing and holding accountable those whom have determined a woman who has been a victim of violence is a "pre-existng condition" and ineligible for health care. Discuss why the criminal, statistically male is not effected. Hot Topics should be just that but women, such as those on "The View" have become the TMZ of daytime talk. They don't express their views, they criticize and exploit others views.

Walk away from your blue or red and blend to make purple. Your daughters' futures depend on it.

Now before I get chastised for not addressing the alarm bells for women in the Canadian political realm... that's an op-ed in the making. No worries it's coming but for now, watch out my southern sisters, I am very concerned for you. I will keep you in my prayers. I will say what you cannot. Your politics does not affect me... your well-being does.